When you’ve been in this business for some time (5+ years) you begin to recognize when another woman is in the same profession. Working girls usually start to develop a look about them when they’re in the business too long. It’s not necessarily a bad or ugly look; but it’s the look of being worn out.
Escorting can age a woman really fast especially if hustling is her only source of income. And with the constant worrying about Cops, dangerous clients, and money issues, the mental strain can cause an escort to start looking rough around the edges.
I saw what were positively a prostitute and her client at a burger joint that I frequent, and she had that worn out hustler look about her. You know the type of hustler that will see clients 24/7.
What gave her away was the 60 year old Indian dude she was with. And I been around the block long enough to know that an old man with a young black chick, usually means she’s hustling his money. Not to sound stereotypical, but what else would a 60 year old Indian man want with a 20 something year old black girl besides some pussy? A rough looking black girl at that!
But I’m not here to judge any woman that sells her body because I do the same thing day after day with dignity. But I’ll be dammed if you see hooker written on my face when I’m out in public.
It’s already a hard enough job being a hooker, but an even harder job not looking like one.
THC
Pole Dancing Extraordinaire.....
Until now, I had never really been impressed with strippers or pole dancers because most of them aren’t real dancers. I’ve seen a few performers in other cities that were so fantastic and animalistic that you forget they were naked. Unfortunately not here in ghetto /white trash Midwest. As a matter of fact, most of the girls in the clubs here look like they need a bath and some Xanax.
Well one of my gay friends saw this woman Felix perform in a Pole Dancing Competition last year, and raved at how wonderful she is. And let me just tell you, this woman is a supernatural force of nature on the pole.
Check this woman out!
Let's not forget the wonderful and sensational Perle Noir who was the first African American to win Miss Exotic World with her Josephine Baker inspired routine. This woman is yet another supernatural force of nature.
I swear, aint nothing sexier than a beautiful talented woman!
Well one of my gay friends saw this woman Felix perform in a Pole Dancing Competition last year, and raved at how wonderful she is. And let me just tell you, this woman is a supernatural force of nature on the pole.
Check this woman out!
Let's not forget the wonderful and sensational Perle Noir who was the first African American to win Miss Exotic World with her Josephine Baker inspired routine. This woman is yet another supernatural force of nature.
I swear, aint nothing sexier than a beautiful talented woman!
Throwback Thursdays -Miami Vice
Since I can’t get enough of these guys, I wanted to show you why.
If you look at the Youtube clip posted, you will see the unwavering swagger and coolness that Crockett and Tubbs possess. Not to mention the classic Phil Collins song banging in the background. This is danger and sexiness personified.
I was reading one the comments posted on the video and the commenter says:
“It'll be 25 years ago this September 16th that Miami vice first premiered on NBC. And as far as I’m concerned the 1980s started that night as we know it. The coolest show in the last cool decade in American pop culture. Enjoy it, people. It will never get this good again”
DAMN RIGHT!!
If you look at the Youtube clip posted, you will see the unwavering swagger and coolness that Crockett and Tubbs possess. Not to mention the classic Phil Collins song banging in the background. This is danger and sexiness personified.
I was reading one the comments posted on the video and the commenter says:
“It'll be 25 years ago this September 16th that Miami vice first premiered on NBC. And as far as I’m concerned the 1980s started that night as we know it. The coolest show in the last cool decade in American pop culture. Enjoy it, people. It will never get this good again”
DAMN RIGHT!!
Guys I'd Fuck- The Monkees
Ok, I know some of you may be thinking, “What the fuck Erika”?
But remember that this list consists of unconventionally attractive men that I find sexually appealing, like Rasputin. So no you will not find Leonardo Dicaprio or Denzel Washington on this list because it’s obvious that those men are sexy.
But let’s look at the Monkees for a second. They were a 60’s band/TV show that was modeled after the Beetles, and became wildly popular due to their comical antics and catchy music. Although they were modeled after the Beetles, I actually found nothing sexy about The Beetles, but everything sexy about the Monkee’s, well, 2 of them (Davy and Peter). And being the good groupie that I am, it would be important for me to fuck the entire band just for the bragging rights.
But remember that this list consists of unconventionally attractive men that I find sexually appealing, like Rasputin. So no you will not find Leonardo Dicaprio or Denzel Washington on this list because it’s obvious that those men are sexy.
But let’s look at the Monkees for a second. They were a 60’s band/TV show that was modeled after the Beetles, and became wildly popular due to their comical antics and catchy music. Although they were modeled after the Beetles, I actually found nothing sexy about The Beetles, but everything sexy about the Monkee’s, well, 2 of them (Davy and Peter). And being the good groupie that I am, it would be important for me to fuck the entire band just for the bragging rights.
So although I find Mike and Mickey the least attractive of them all, I’d still have to fuck them.
That's being a good host!
Fantasy Ménage à trios
Over the last month or so I’ve had this growing obsession with the classic TV show drama, Miami Vice. Every evening when I return from my regular job, I’d settle in to watch an episode of the awesome classic crime drama. I never really pay too much attention to the plot because I'm usually fixated on the flashy 80’s décor, music, and those two sexy mother fuckers, Crocket and Tubbs.
I guess the other thing that I loved was the fact they let the black cop (Tubbs) have love scenes with women like his partner does. You usually don’t see black men making love on TV or movies today, so I appreciate seeing those sexy love scenes, especially the episode with Tubbs and Pam Grier.
Because I find both Crocket and Tubbs extremely sexy, I’ll often masturbate while watching them chase down cocaine dealers in Crockets black Ferrari Daytona Spyder. But just imagine what these two would be like in a Ménage à trios, fulfilling my appetite for both black and white skin; Tubbs on one side and crocket on the other, bringing me to the greatest ecstasy known to man. Then waking up the next morning to champagne, breakfast, and a fat envelope full of cash!
That’s some good living right there yall.
I guess the other thing that I loved was the fact they let the black cop (Tubbs) have love scenes with women like his partner does. You usually don’t see black men making love on TV or movies today, so I appreciate seeing those sexy love scenes, especially the episode with Tubbs and Pam Grier.
Because I find both Crocket and Tubbs extremely sexy, I’ll often masturbate while watching them chase down cocaine dealers in Crockets black Ferrari Daytona Spyder. But just imagine what these two would be like in a Ménage à trios, fulfilling my appetite for both black and white skin; Tubbs on one side and crocket on the other, bringing me to the greatest ecstasy known to man. Then waking up the next morning to champagne, breakfast, and a fat envelope full of cash!
That’s some good living right there yall.
Blood oh the Blood
I’ve always had a love-hate relationship with my period.
I love coming on because during my period I am the horniest. Everything is tender and sensitive, from my nipples down to my thighs. The slightest brush up against my body can cause me to quiver.
But on the flip side, the blood grosses me the hell out. Not necessarily the blood itself, but the amount of blood that comes out of me. I’m almost positive that a half-gallon flows from my vagina every month, fucking up my sheets, underwear, towels, and everything else it touches. My period also makes for embarrassing sex moments with lovers.
I usually don’t have sex when I come on my period because my flow is so heavy that most diaphragms and instead soft-cups don’t hold it in. But I went against my better judgment, and saw a really great guy anyway.
I made sure that I bathed thoroughly before I inserted the soft-cup against my cervix. And with blood dripping down my thighs and hands and onto the floor, I wrestled getting it in properly. After I got it in, I cleaned the blood off the toilet seat, and the floor, and then jumped in the shower again.
I got out, and did my usual girlie prep with the lotions, powders, and perfumes. I made sure my hair was flawless and makeup was just right, then I put on my little yellow sun dress.
Because I’ve known this guy for years, I told him that I was on my period and to be gentle because a mess would ensue if he didn’t. He just laughed and said “it’s just a little blood Erika”.
So off we went, he started touching me and gently rubbing his hands against my breast and thighs and I started to feel a quiver. His skin was pressed up against mine, and I could feel his breath on the back of my neck as he cupped his hands around my breast. He reached down and stuck his finger in my vagina and to my surprise it came out clean. I thought I was in the clear so we put the condom on and jumped onto the bed, and he went in from the back. He was going as gentle as he could but I still started to see blood drip down onto my sheets. I kind of panicked and told him to stop so that I could adjust it, and he told me not to worry about it.
He goes in to play with my clit while fucking me from behind, and then I lay completely on my stomach while he’s on top of me, getting it from behind. I can feel the massive amounts of blood under me, and when his hands were in sight, I saw blood on them. The sight of my blood on his hands turned me on.
He went in harder and harder, and I felt more blood come out. By this time the blood was all the way up my butt and at the lower part of my back. I turn over so I can see the blood on him, and he says to me....”WOW, what a sexy mess we made”
I love coming on because during my period I am the horniest. Everything is tender and sensitive, from my nipples down to my thighs. The slightest brush up against my body can cause me to quiver.
But on the flip side, the blood grosses me the hell out. Not necessarily the blood itself, but the amount of blood that comes out of me. I’m almost positive that a half-gallon flows from my vagina every month, fucking up my sheets, underwear, towels, and everything else it touches. My period also makes for embarrassing sex moments with lovers.
I usually don’t have sex when I come on my period because my flow is so heavy that most diaphragms and instead soft-cups don’t hold it in. But I went against my better judgment, and saw a really great guy anyway.
I made sure that I bathed thoroughly before I inserted the soft-cup against my cervix. And with blood dripping down my thighs and hands and onto the floor, I wrestled getting it in properly. After I got it in, I cleaned the blood off the toilet seat, and the floor, and then jumped in the shower again.
I got out, and did my usual girlie prep with the lotions, powders, and perfumes. I made sure my hair was flawless and makeup was just right, then I put on my little yellow sun dress.
Because I’ve known this guy for years, I told him that I was on my period and to be gentle because a mess would ensue if he didn’t. He just laughed and said “it’s just a little blood Erika”.
So off we went, he started touching me and gently rubbing his hands against my breast and thighs and I started to feel a quiver. His skin was pressed up against mine, and I could feel his breath on the back of my neck as he cupped his hands around my breast. He reached down and stuck his finger in my vagina and to my surprise it came out clean. I thought I was in the clear so we put the condom on and jumped onto the bed, and he went in from the back. He was going as gentle as he could but I still started to see blood drip down onto my sheets. I kind of panicked and told him to stop so that I could adjust it, and he told me not to worry about it.
He goes in to play with my clit while fucking me from behind, and then I lay completely on my stomach while he’s on top of me, getting it from behind. I can feel the massive amounts of blood under me, and when his hands were in sight, I saw blood on them. The sight of my blood on his hands turned me on.
He went in harder and harder, and I felt more blood come out. By this time the blood was all the way up my butt and at the lower part of my back. I turn over so I can see the blood on him, and he says to me....”WOW, what a sexy mess we made”
Throwback Thursdays
How can you NOT bop your head to this song?
It's a fucking classic!
I'm dedicating this song to an overly affectionate client, and you know who you are!
It's a fucking classic!
I'm dedicating this song to an overly affectionate client, and you know who you are!
Are escorting e-books worth paying for?
God, it seems like just yesterday I was sitting in front of my computer screen getting ready to post my very first ad on Craigslist. That was back in the day when Craigslist was a phenomenal source of Ho income. You could literally make $1000 a day off one ad, especially if you were fresh meat.
Back in those days, there were also TONS of “How-to” manuals for those of us that didn’t know anything about the business. I’d purchase every e-book, join every site, and fall completely victim to every “Make Millions being an escort” scam.
I’d sit and read each e-book cover to cover and was usually unimpressed by the complete and utter fuckery in them. I remember reading an e-book where the escort recommended scamming clients out of money by up-selling, and then referring to them as tricks and johns. I’d always feel very uneasy doing anything suggested in those e-books, but I’d purchase them anyway.
Another thing I noticed was that MOST e-books were written by burned-out escorts that hated men, and didn’t care about sex either. It was like escorts were writing e-books as an alternative way to make money when they no longer wanted to escort. It’s like taking marriage advice from a divorced person, money advice from a bum, and sex advice from a virgin.
But on the flipside I have gotten my hands on some wonderful e-books and blog entries on how to get started in the Ho business, and the writers didn’t charge a DIME. One of my favorites is Callie Simms e-book The Art of Sensuality. I can read her e-book today, and say that everything in it is 100% on point. That’s how relevant it is. So just imagine being new and getting your hands on her material back then, you’d be unstoppable!
Whenever I got emails from young Ho hopefuls asking for advice about the business, I’d just send them to Callie’s website and tell them to download her e-book and do whatever she says, and they’d be ok.
Then there was Miss Ciara’s “PhD in Hooking 101” series that caused a sensation when she first wrote it. This material is a MUST HAVE for any new girl looking for legit information on breaking into the Biz. Not to mention that both were written by the crème-de-la crème of the industry, the Oprah Winfrey and Martha Stewart of Hookerdom.
http://www.buffalocharm.com/2/phd.htm
http://calliesimms.net
http://www.backpage.com/28611828
Back in those days, there were also TONS of “How-to” manuals for those of us that didn’t know anything about the business. I’d purchase every e-book, join every site, and fall completely victim to every “Make Millions being an escort” scam.
I’d sit and read each e-book cover to cover and was usually unimpressed by the complete and utter fuckery in them. I remember reading an e-book where the escort recommended scamming clients out of money by up-selling, and then referring to them as tricks and johns. I’d always feel very uneasy doing anything suggested in those e-books, but I’d purchase them anyway.
Another thing I noticed was that MOST e-books were written by burned-out escorts that hated men, and didn’t care about sex either. It was like escorts were writing e-books as an alternative way to make money when they no longer wanted to escort. It’s like taking marriage advice from a divorced person, money advice from a bum, and sex advice from a virgin.
But on the flipside I have gotten my hands on some wonderful e-books and blog entries on how to get started in the Ho business, and the writers didn’t charge a DIME. One of my favorites is Callie Simms e-book The Art of Sensuality. I can read her e-book today, and say that everything in it is 100% on point. That’s how relevant it is. So just imagine being new and getting your hands on her material back then, you’d be unstoppable!
Whenever I got emails from young Ho hopefuls asking for advice about the business, I’d just send them to Callie’s website and tell them to download her e-book and do whatever she says, and they’d be ok.
Then there was Miss Ciara’s “PhD in Hooking 101” series that caused a sensation when she first wrote it. This material is a MUST HAVE for any new girl looking for legit information on breaking into the Biz. Not to mention that both were written by the crème-de-la crème of the industry, the Oprah Winfrey and Martha Stewart of Hookerdom.
http://www.buffalocharm.com/2/phd.htm
http://calliesimms.net
http://www.backpage.com/28611828
Having double families....
Can a man love his wife and his Mistress at the same time?
Can a man have a family with both?
It happens more than a lot of us are aware of. I have a client that has a teenage daughter with an escort that he financially supports, all while having his own “legal family” to care for. We sat and talked for hours about the complexities of having multiple families, and trying to manage time between the two. I’m guessing that this daughter isn’t a secret to his wife because he talks about buying her a car when she turns 16, and I’m pretty sure the purchase of a car can’t go un-noticed by the wife. Or can it?
But it gets deeper than that because I know a few escorts that have kids with clients, and whenever I see a pregnant escort I always question who the daddy is. Call me ignorant, but whenever I see a pregnant escort I always think, “Oopsie, the condom must have broke”. LOL
But no, that’s not funny, that’s actually a TERRIBLE predicament to be in, but the reality is, it happens.
I had a client once tell me that we’d make cute babies together and I told him,”Not as long as there’s an Abortion clinic near by”.
Ugh, I can’t believe I said that.
That’s terrible, but true!
A body Desensitized....
My body has finally started to become desensitized after 5 ongoing years in this industry. Even after genuinely enjoying sex, I have now gotten to the place where it is impossible for me to get off on just straight sex alone. Although my goal when I have sex is to have an orgasm, which I usually do, 80% of that orgasm is mental, and the rest is from the toy that I use. My orgasms are also becoming harder to achieve now.
I hate admitting all of this because I don’t want my clients to think that they can no longer satisfy me sexually, because that’s simply not true. This is why it is EXETREMELY crucial that I have some sort of emotional connection with my clients.
Over the years I’ve had clients that I had no real connection with, but enjoyed the sex because we both got off. Today, that won’t happen. My body won’t let me.If I don’t have some sort of emotional connection with the man, then I probably won’t enjoy the sex, and that’s not because I don’t want to, it’s because I can’t. I spoke to an OB/GYN who is aware of what I do, and he told me that the ongoing friction from the condoms and fingers is causing the desensitization.
But it’s not just my pussy that’s becoming desensitized; my nipples are on its way from the constant pinching and rolling. At this point, fingers are just a bad idea. I try to steer my clients away from digging in my pussy because not only does that not feel good, it starts to irritate me after about 15 seconds. Even when I masturbate alone I become irritated by my own fingers, and that’s bad.
I’m experimenting with different brands of condoms, and spending more money on better brands like Trojan.
I think my pussy just needs a vacation, but even if I did that I’d still play with myself because I need the stimulation.
Umm, maybe a break is underway.
Well see.
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I have Alopecia...
Wow, talk about a curveball.
But every time I’m presented with lemons, I always make the best Lemonade in town.
I was just diagnosed with having Alopacia, which is a condition in which hair is lost from some or all areas of the body, usually from the scalp.
So in Laymen’s term… I’m going bald.
It all started when my mother noticed a small patch of hair missing in the back of my head and asked had I shaved that area. I said no and just dismissed it as hair loss from headband friction because I wear a lot of headbands when I’m at work. Well the next day when I woke up, I noticed a large bald spot the size of a light bulb in the back of my head and I FREAKED.
That evening when I went to work, I showed a doctor on duty my bald spot and he told me to go see a dermatologist because it looks like Alopacia. Well I have an appointment with my Dermatologist on Thursday so he can do a skin test and determine the type of Alopacia that I have.
But I have made up my mind that I won’t do any treatments. I think being bald will add an element of uniqueness, especially for those who have a bald fetish.
I’m pretty ok with it all for the simple fact that I never really had any serious connections with my hair to begin with. After I had Micro braids for 4 months, I just decided to shave my head, but no one noticed because I always wore fabulous wigs.
Even today, I really don’t think any of my clients remember what my natural hair looks like except for the ones that loved my locks and Afro. Other than that, I always wore wigs.
This should be an interesting chain of events.
If the Alopacia is an aggressive form then I’ll probably loose all my hair within a Month!
We’ll see
But every time I’m presented with lemons, I always make the best Lemonade in town.
I was just diagnosed with having Alopacia, which is a condition in which hair is lost from some or all areas of the body, usually from the scalp.
So in Laymen’s term… I’m going bald.
It all started when my mother noticed a small patch of hair missing in the back of my head and asked had I shaved that area. I said no and just dismissed it as hair loss from headband friction because I wear a lot of headbands when I’m at work. Well the next day when I woke up, I noticed a large bald spot the size of a light bulb in the back of my head and I FREAKED.
That evening when I went to work, I showed a doctor on duty my bald spot and he told me to go see a dermatologist because it looks like Alopacia. Well I have an appointment with my Dermatologist on Thursday so he can do a skin test and determine the type of Alopacia that I have.
But I have made up my mind that I won’t do any treatments. I think being bald will add an element of uniqueness, especially for those who have a bald fetish.
I’m pretty ok with it all for the simple fact that I never really had any serious connections with my hair to begin with. After I had Micro braids for 4 months, I just decided to shave my head, but no one noticed because I always wore fabulous wigs.
Even today, I really don’t think any of my clients remember what my natural hair looks like except for the ones that loved my locks and Afro. Other than that, I always wore wigs.
This should be an interesting chain of events.
If the Alopacia is an aggressive form then I’ll probably loose all my hair within a Month!
We’ll see
Real Life
Thank God I only have one child.
I realized today how stressful parenting can be, even when you’re doing simple things like school supply shopping. So today (Sunday) I decided to take advantage of Tax free weekend so that I can save a few dollars. I woke up extra early because I knew that the stores would be packed with mothers and their little bratty kids, and I was NOT in the mood.
So I printed off my son’s supply list and headed over to Target 30 minutes before they open, and GOT DAMMIT there was a fucking line waiting at the door.
FUCK….FUCK…FUCK!
But anyway, I scavenger hunted through the school supplies and got everything on the list except the Wide Rule loose leaf notebook paper, which was out. I twittered about not being able to find notebook paper, and a brilliant client of mine gave me a website where I can print out my own notebook paper.
www.printablepaper.com
SCORE!!!!!!
I already had tons of white papers here that I don’t use, so I just printed him about 200 sheets and Viola…Wide Rule Notebook paper is born!
Thank you Mr. C
I realized today how stressful parenting can be, even when you’re doing simple things like school supply shopping. So today (Sunday) I decided to take advantage of Tax free weekend so that I can save a few dollars. I woke up extra early because I knew that the stores would be packed with mothers and their little bratty kids, and I was NOT in the mood.
So I printed off my son’s supply list and headed over to Target 30 minutes before they open, and GOT DAMMIT there was a fucking line waiting at the door.
FUCK….FUCK…FUCK!
But anyway, I scavenger hunted through the school supplies and got everything on the list except the Wide Rule loose leaf notebook paper, which was out. I twittered about not being able to find notebook paper, and a brilliant client of mine gave me a website where I can print out my own notebook paper.
www.printablepaper.com
SCORE!!!!!!
I already had tons of white papers here that I don’t use, so I just printed him about 200 sheets and Viola…Wide Rule Notebook paper is born!
Thank you Mr. C
Someone asked if I could put my nude photos behind a link and I was like HEll NO!
This is a blog based on the life a hooker, so if you don't like sex talk or tities then go visit TJakes site instead!
Adoring my clients makes them Adore me =)
I’ve developed a HUGE interest in the male psyche every since I began to delve into the world of Escorting 5 years ago. Never in a million years did I think I would become as successful as I’ve become in this industry. I’m overweight, I have tiny budding dreadlocks, and I’m the quintessential unassuming female. I don’t have a low self-esteem, and never have, but I’m totally realistic about my beauty, or lack there of.
Am I cute…..YES; but beautiful…..NO.
I always wondered what it was about me that keep my clientele so loyal, and I think I know the answer. Fascination and Emotion!
My client’s interest in me has little to do with sex or looks. They are interested in my being, my spirit, my carefree nature. I have developed a strategy that has hypnotized my clients into submitting themselves to me both emotionally and physically, without me being ideally attractive.
As women, we have been taught that men react to looks first, which is true. But the key is the next level of the initial meet, which is Personality. Believe it or not, men are more emotionally attached to women with certain personality types, no matter how the woman looks. Once they get over the initial infatuation with looks, then they begin looking for qualities in her personality that connects with him emotionally.
For me, it’s my eccentric and eclectic nature. I am something that they are not accustomed to, or ever thought they would be.
Below are tips to getting a man emotionally attached.
(Tip 1) Travel! There’s something about a worldly woman that fascinates men. And I’m not just talking the Caribbean and Mexico. Visit Cambodia and see the ancient temples Angkor Wat. I try to make it a habit of visiting at least one country abroad every 2 years.
(Tip2) Intellect! And I’m not referring to a self professed intellect that most women seem to adopt. I’m talking about having an actual expertise and passion in something that a man is interested in. My expertise is the history, sex, and culture.
(Tip 3) Attitude! If you got it, LOOSE IT…Immediately! Nothing is more of a turn off emotionally than a woman with attitude. And I’m not referring to Joan Collins or drag queen type attitude. I mean Nagging and bitching attitude. If you’re the type that gets ruffled easily, learn to train your emotions not to react.
(Tip4) Friendliness! Nothing is more pleasant than a woman who smiles and is happy. And when you add sensual and attentive to the mix, you gain the power. The secret is finding an equal mix of attentiveness and High Self esteem. Men absolutely LOVE a friendly attentive woman who thinks highly of herself.
Last but not least
Openness! An open minded woman goes far in every avenue, especially in love and relationships. Never say never, always say maybe! I thought I’d never become attracted to women until I met my current girlfriend, who is also my secondary partner. A polyamorous relationship was something that I never dreamed I could love, but with an open heart and mind, I not only found a true love, I found 2.
THC
Am I cute…..YES; but beautiful…..NO.
I always wondered what it was about me that keep my clientele so loyal, and I think I know the answer. Fascination and Emotion!
My client’s interest in me has little to do with sex or looks. They are interested in my being, my spirit, my carefree nature. I have developed a strategy that has hypnotized my clients into submitting themselves to me both emotionally and physically, without me being ideally attractive.
As women, we have been taught that men react to looks first, which is true. But the key is the next level of the initial meet, which is Personality. Believe it or not, men are more emotionally attached to women with certain personality types, no matter how the woman looks. Once they get over the initial infatuation with looks, then they begin looking for qualities in her personality that connects with him emotionally.
For me, it’s my eccentric and eclectic nature. I am something that they are not accustomed to, or ever thought they would be.
Below are tips to getting a man emotionally attached.
(Tip 1) Travel! There’s something about a worldly woman that fascinates men. And I’m not just talking the Caribbean and Mexico. Visit Cambodia and see the ancient temples Angkor Wat. I try to make it a habit of visiting at least one country abroad every 2 years.
(Tip2) Intellect! And I’m not referring to a self professed intellect that most women seem to adopt. I’m talking about having an actual expertise and passion in something that a man is interested in. My expertise is the history, sex, and culture.
(Tip 3) Attitude! If you got it, LOOSE IT…Immediately! Nothing is more of a turn off emotionally than a woman with attitude. And I’m not referring to Joan Collins or drag queen type attitude. I mean Nagging and bitching attitude. If you’re the type that gets ruffled easily, learn to train your emotions not to react.
(Tip4) Friendliness! Nothing is more pleasant than a woman who smiles and is happy. And when you add sensual and attentive to the mix, you gain the power. The secret is finding an equal mix of attentiveness and High Self esteem. Men absolutely LOVE a friendly attentive woman who thinks highly of herself.
Last but not least
Openness! An open minded woman goes far in every avenue, especially in love and relationships. Never say never, always say maybe! I thought I’d never become attracted to women until I met my current girlfriend, who is also my secondary partner. A polyamorous relationship was something that I never dreamed I could love, but with an open heart and mind, I not only found a true love, I found 2.
THC
Date a Cop
I’ve had what I would consider a very eventful past year. In 2008 my apartment was broken into a week before Christmas and all my shit was stolen. A few Months ago some little bastard kids broke my patio window with a rock. Then my new neighbor vandalized my car with pancake syrup because I parked in her supposed parking space.
I began thinking to myself, damn God, am I being punished?
All while these unfortunate events were taking place, I kept getting the same Police Officer to investigate and take police reports. A CUTE Police Officer at that, but in this profession they are the enemy.
Well this last incident with my neighbor sparked some comic relief as the Cop and I laughed about the ridiculousness of it all. After about 20 minutes of discussing the incident, the conversation began to shift to music, movies, and travel. We began having a great conversation about places we’ve been and concerts we’ve seen. It seems like we had everything in common. From our love of Jazz music, to our introduction to horror films at a young age; everything just flowed smoothly.
It was a chemistry that I haven’t felt in a long time. And although his uniform made me wildly uncomfortable, I really enjoyed his company.
I also had to keep reminding myself that he's the good guy, and he was here to help me.
He offered me his telephone number before he left, and I reluctantly took it. For weeks I sat there staring at his number and debating whether or not to call. So many questions filled my head.
Would this be a good idea for a girl like me?
Could a cop understand my profession, on a personal level?
Could a stop being an escort to peruse a relationship with a Cop, in addition to the relationship that I already have with my partner?
I thought long and hard about these questions, and the answer I’ve come up with is:
HELL FUCKING NAWWWWWW
I began thinking to myself, damn God, am I being punished?
All while these unfortunate events were taking place, I kept getting the same Police Officer to investigate and take police reports. A CUTE Police Officer at that, but in this profession they are the enemy.
Well this last incident with my neighbor sparked some comic relief as the Cop and I laughed about the ridiculousness of it all. After about 20 minutes of discussing the incident, the conversation began to shift to music, movies, and travel. We began having a great conversation about places we’ve been and concerts we’ve seen. It seems like we had everything in common. From our love of Jazz music, to our introduction to horror films at a young age; everything just flowed smoothly.
It was a chemistry that I haven’t felt in a long time. And although his uniform made me wildly uncomfortable, I really enjoyed his company.
I also had to keep reminding myself that he's the good guy, and he was here to help me.
He offered me his telephone number before he left, and I reluctantly took it. For weeks I sat there staring at his number and debating whether or not to call. So many questions filled my head.
Would this be a good idea for a girl like me?
Could a cop understand my profession, on a personal level?
Could a stop being an escort to peruse a relationship with a Cop, in addition to the relationship that I already have with my partner?
I thought long and hard about these questions, and the answer I’ve come up with is:
HELL FUCKING NAWWWWWW
HELP ME!
(Socialite Genevieve Jones)HELP ME!
I’m drowning in my To-do list.
Have you ever had a To-do list that seemed longer than the Great Wall of China? Like all the shit that needs to get done is endless.
A Doctor that I used to work for in 04 told me to write down everything that I need to accomplish for the day, and then mark it off once I’ve accomplished it. Well that all worked fine and dandy for maybe a year, but my obsessive compulsive disorder only makes me add more shit to the list, and the list becomes unending.
Some of the shit on my To-do list is so unnecessary, but getting it tackled is like a boxer winning a prize fight, and it just makes me feel good. Like for instance, I’m getting a new car, a 2008 PT Cruiser. Nothing fancy or spectacular but it’s affordable and I can pay cash for it so I don’t have to worry about car payments later. So what I’d do is put “buy my car” on my daily To-do list although I’m not scheduled to get it till the end of the Month.
Now with this new house in my future my motor is spinning every which way. I’m anxious, excited, and curious about it all. I just got an email from a very good client who told me that I f I needed ANYTHING for my new incall space to let him know and he’ll get it for me.
This is a pivotal point in my life right now because I’m in the process of making some crucial changes so that I can live better and have better experiences with my clients. I’m even thinking about changing my name (persona) and my website just to spice things up a bit. I really like the name Genevieve Jones but the name is already taken by another fabulous little socialite. And although the socialite had a history of hustling like I do, I still don’t want to use her name and associate it with prostitution.
FUCK it, I may still use it anyway……
Ok fellas back on the grind.
See you Wed Morning!
The Lusty Chick
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